Who doesnât want to be in a healthy, loving relationship? While we all desire it, sometimes we need assistance to get there. There are often signs that will show up that indicate whether your relationship is toxic. They can big warnings, but often they are subtle. Take this short assessment to learn whether your relationship is in a healthy place or if there is trouble beneath the surface.
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You feel like the person youâre with is supportive of the things you do.
You feel comfortable expressing your feelings with my partner.
You feel comfortable spending time with your friends away from my partner.
The person youâre with encourages you to try new things.
You feel like the person youâre with listens to you, especially when you have something important to say.
Your friends have said positive things about the person youâre with.
The person youâre with checks in with you, but not constantly.
The person youâre with feels comfortable with you being around people, including friends of the opposite sex.
The person youâre with doesnât question what you wear.
The person youâre with never calls you names or criticizes you.
The person youâre with embraces your family and friends.
The person youâre with doesnât blame you for their problems .
The person you're with makes you feel loved.
The person youâre with has never threatened to hurt you, your friends or your loved ones.
The person youâre with has never threatened to hurt themselves because of you.
The person youâre with has never put their hands on you (grabbing, pushing, shoving, slapping, holding your down, throwing things, hurting you in some way)
You donât feel like the person youâre with is threatening or intimidating.
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Please repeat the quiz and try different answer combinations.Youâre in a Healthy Relationship
If you mostly answered yes, your relationship is healthy and in a good place. A good partner is able to express themselves in positive, effective ways. They also are able to deal with conflict in a way that doesnât compromise your own physical and emotional well-being. They try their best to avoid toxic situations and do a good job trying to navigate around them. You may face challenges and take some missteps, but ultimate your love, care and support for each other shine through to each other. While everything wonât always be perfect, the love and care you are your partner share for each other will help you weather the storms that come your way.
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The pair tied the knot in 1982.
Wilder passed away in August 2016.
Proceed With Caution
If you mostly answered no, you need to proceed with caution. Nothingâs wrong with wanting to keep your significant other happy but when you find yourself pleading for their happiness, thereâs an issue. You may even find yourself staying silent even when youâre angry just to keep the peace. Helplessness is also a common emotion in unhealthy relationships. Often times, these partners will try controlling all aspects of your life, including personal items like your car and phone and what you do with your spare time. It youâre feeling trapped, itâs time to take the leap of faith and walk away.
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The pair tied the knot in 1982.
Wilder passed away in August 2016.
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