Every man is different with different preferences. There is no single "right" way to attract a man. With so many different types of guys and preferences, it would be impossible to list all the physical attributes or flirty actions that will draw interest.

But, even with all those preferences, there is one thing that is essential to seducing your man - no matter who it is.

Control your vibe

Putting off the right vibe is the great secret. But it's way easier said than done, and women get it wrong over and over.

As a woman (or just as a human being in general), you constantly send messages. You're likely well aware of your verbal messages and mostly aware of what your body language is saying, but you probably don't even realize what vibe you're sending.

Create a positive vibe

"If you want to be incredibly attractive to men and women alike, then eliminate negativity in your life," wrote Eric Charles, the writer behind the Ask A Guy blog. "This doesn't mean you become some sort of grinning idiot trying to force yourself into happiness ... you'll find that recognizing all negativity as unattractive poison and letting it go is enough to massively improve your vibe."

There is something completely irresistible about people who only absorb and exude positivity.

Get out of your head

I have a friend who is every man's dream - truly. I've never met a guy who talked to her who wasn't smitten in the first 60 seconds. She exudes positivity. She takes care of herself physically, but once she walks out the door of her house, she focuses on everyone else around her, and she is a human magnet. People adore her.

She once told me, "I just tell myself that everyone loves me, so then I can treat them like someone I love."

You don't have to be outgoing. You don't have to be the most popular or the most beautiful. But stop worrying about what everyone at the party thinks about you and help them feel like they are loved. A man notices such things.

Stop complaining, gossiping and belittling

Putting people down doesn't make you look better. Complaining isn't fun to listen to. And gossiping hurts everyone involved.

Even if you aren't doing these things while you're actually trying to attract your man, any negativity you allow into your life affects your vibe. Seduction requires being at peace with your life. If you are creating a peaceful, positive energy, the man around you will sense that and he'll love it.

Be YOUR most attractive self

There is no point obsessing about having a tall, thin body if you're naturally curvy or about having a curvy body if you're naturally hipless. Yes, physical attraction is a big deal for men (obviously). But obsessing about your weight to the point of missing out on life or having a horrible personality will kill any guy's interest in you.

Exercise because it's healthy and helps you feel good. Dress up on special occasions in what helps you feel most confident. Create a life you love and then don't worry about it.

If you work to be your most attractive self, the peace and positive energy that draws others in will show. Every man is attracted to a different body type; so, if seducing your man is your goal, don't stress about creating a "perfect body" - just work on creating a positive, irresistible vibe everyone is drawn to.

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